what u say: "u don't have a disorder, everyone feels that way sometimes. stop making things up and just try harder."

what i hear: "i'm ignorant and have no idea how mental illness actually works."



mother rabbits love their babies with such a wild fervor that they will pluck their own fur out to make blankets for their children to lay in

you asked last night how school was going but i learned a long time ago not to answer honestly and sure enough within five seconds of opening my mouth you were distracted again but something so much more important and later when i was trying to calmly explain that the juice on the floor was an accident, you flew off the handle like i’d spilled the world’s most precious liquid and the whole time you thumped around and shouted your throat raw i just cleaned up the mess and waited until i could go back to my room without you making a comment

a mama killdeer will fly from the nest and lead danger away even if it kills her

and it just kills me how little you actually know me and how much of my life you have missed because most of our interactions are either you yelling at me or me being dismissed

i mean for awhile now i’ve realized
that i’m the more mature person
in this relationship.

- What I want, more than anything in this world, is to make them happy, make them proud of me, but all they leave me with are bitter words and an emptiness that swallows me whole…” /// r.i.d (via inkskinned)

(via itssimplytemporary)

quotes depression

Anonymous asked:

As a lesbian, I do not care at all about bisexual girls feeling left out or judged in the LGBTQ community. I know that's horrible, especially since my girlfriend is bi, but I find it very revolting when I think about making love with someone that loves taking dick. I fell for my girlfriend without knowing she likes guys and girls. I don't purposefully date bisexual girls and I don't think it's wrong to say that.

Aek Taylor Answer:






I really hope your girlfriend realizes she’s dating a pathetic waste of a human being and finds someone infinitely better. 

A lot of lesbians are turned off by the idea of their gf having sex with men. Why is that such a bad thing? Why is it so wrong to only like women who like other women? I think the anon who asked this should be honest with her gf and break up with her though if it’s that much of a turn off. 

At first I wasn’t going to reply to comments like these but now that I’ve had a couple of beers the idea of repeatedly hitting my head against a brick wall seems more enjoyable so here we go.

I have a problem with lesbians who claim that they have a “preference” towards dating other lesbians over bisexuals. I understand having a preference, I personally have a preference for girls who are my height or taller than me.  However, does this preference make me view my own voice, safety, and representation in my community as superior and of more importance than those I do not have a preference for? Nope. That’s why this anon (and unfortunately other like minded individuals)  don’t have a “preference” they are biphobic and overall prejudicial assholes.

If you’re not comfortable dating bisexual people because you feel they will ultimately leave you for the opposite sex or (insert other stereotypical view of bisexuals) you don’t have a preference, you are biphobic, and have some huge insecurities that you should probably deal with before you enter a relationship.

If you’re a lesbian and do not feel comfortable dating a woman who is also attracted to individuals with dicks because you find it “icky” or “gross”, it must blow your mind when you find out your partner likes watermelon and you don’t. How do you even move forward from there? Is the relationship just doomed? And yes it is the same thing. Those individuals are judging someone based on something they cannot control.

Prejudice and phobia inside the queer community is something I will never understand and is absolutely infuriating. 

bi fav